For some parents who have a problem, divorce may become a best solution for their problem. But actually, they have to think twice about that. The effect of the divorce won’t be felt just by those parents. It will also affect to the big family, the relatives, and the most important thing, the children. Many researchers have founded that the divorce will give very bad effect for the children. Their habit will be totally changed. The children who may be so cheerful in a usual can be changed 360 degree to the anger children. It is surely a big problem. Some parents still don’t realize it. They just think about their selves and their egos, whereas their children suffer so much. The worse condition is occurred when the parents who will be divorced do violence in the front of their children. Something like punch or bad words will be recorded by the children. We surely remember about the children who are the best copier. In their mind, violence is okay to be done for solving something. Finally, they use it everywhere such as in the school, in the environment, and many other places. Their parents won’t know about this until they are called by the school because of their children’s bad habit. In this case, the parents have to realize that they have children. If they are separated, their children’s developing won’t be alright. We can see the examples in the real world. Many children are ignored because their parents’ egos. They just think about their selves without worrying anything about their children, whereas those parents still have many responsibilities to their children. After we read all of those things, we can conclude that if we want to get divorced, the most important thing we have to think first is the children.
As we know, the children are the best copier around the world. They can copy many things which they hear, they see, they feel, and many others. The condition will be okay if they hear, see, or feel something good. If they get the contrary, it will be so dangerous for their selves and their environment. When the children become bigger and bigger, they will become more expert in copying something. For example, they will copy the habit of their father such as saying some words in certain style. It is very natural. But it can be worse if the habit which is absorbed by those children. When they absorb those bad things, they will use it as their habit too. We surely know that habit is very difficult to be changed. Moreover, when the children grow up, it will be some problem for them and their environment such as family and friends.
In this case, the parents have a big role to control their children habit. There are some ways which can be used by those parents to do it. The first, the parents have to give a good example to their children. If those parents don’t want their children to say some words which are slang or bad, they shouldn’t say those things too. The second is, monitor the children. It is very important for the children. But the parents don’t need to monitor them excessively. They just need to see their development. If the development goes to something bad, they have to give some suggestions for their children to make them changed.
The last is, become the best friend. Some parents sometimes don’t have the special relationship with their children. They seldom sit together with their children and share many things, whereas that sharing can be a door to open many things in their children’s heart.
Nowadays, the children are not same again with the children in the past. Many children nowadays have very bad habit, moreover in their eating habit and their lifestyle. In the past, many children were very healthy, because there were no other foods beside healthy foods. That habit also supported the lifestyle of those children. They had good development body, very smart, and diligent. This condition is very contrast to the children nowadays. They just like eating the unhealthy foods such as fast foods or junk foods. They think that those foods are very delicious, whereas those foods are not good for their development. That bad habit also influences the lifestyle. If the children in the past get good influence from their foods, the children nowadays get the contrary. Those foods make them lazy. Because those foods have unbalance nutrition or we can say “lack of nutrition”, those foods cause many children get overweight or even obesity. That condition also forces the children to keep silent and less moving. That condition becomes worse when the games are created.
If we see in the past, we will find the big differences. Because there were no video games or the others, the children liked playing on the outside of their house. They interacted with their friends, kept moving, and produced more sweat. Those things made them healthy and also far away from the weird diseases. If the children nowadays can do what the children did in the past, the condition will be different. Maybe, the obesity will be gone. In this case, the role of the parents is very big. The parents have to point the children to the right way. It means that the parents have to really teach about healthy life and also they have to monitor their children activities, especially about what they eat.
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