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Five Things Women Want in a Relationship

February 20th, 2010 Leave a comment Go to comments
This article I wrote for the men who want to know what women want. If you are a woman, read it too! To love your life and your relationships to understand, you not only understand your lover, but you must also understand yourself.
Five Things Women Want in a Relationship photoThe psychoanalyst Sigmund Freud once asked: “What women really want?” And as famous as he was, he has never been able to answer this question.
Yet what women want in a relationship really not a mystery.
There are five things that women want a man in a relationship

1. Reliability.
This is due to the time when we were cave dwellers. When women had the task to keep the fire was burning and rearing children while their partner went hunting for food protection. To be safe and protect her children she wanted the father of her children at night come home and it was nerve racking as he did not.

Today men use a GSM computer keyboard and to get food on the table instead of rocks and spears, but for women the same emotional terms. They want to make sure you’re there when you need it. It hits its most fundamental sense of security and if they can not trust you, she is scared.

2. Friendliness.
Forget the tough guys act. Women want men who are thoughtful, considerate and above all friendly. They want someone who is an arm around them when they cry, she brings a cup of soup when they are sick, that their dogs and Lego play with their children.

They want you to listen so they got a crash so without her names because you damage the car. Women spend much of their time to care for others and if they have a relationship like they care a little back.

Most women say that the cheating was not the sex which they did but the attention and understanding that they got from the men she had an affair along drove them to. If they had received attention at home, they had not had that urge to go weird.

3. Equivalence.
Women want a partner in a relationship, not a mother or a big kid. In surveys about relationships predominantly women said they want a partner who stands beside them, their best friend, who really listens to what they say, happy with their care about their successes and failures.

They want a man who recognizes and appreciates what it introduces into the relationship and not belittles them in half-rate role to keep. They want someone on their side that it encourages to develop and realize their dreams, not afraid that a man makes them less successful woman.

4. Helpfulness.
When women are asked what they prefer to hear of their friend or partner is the answer: “Can I help you?” Offer to do household work that is not your job was like the dishes or make you in the eyes of a woman a hero.

Researchers have discovered that women are far better than men who are able to do multiple tasks simultaneously, making this ability also ensures that they are often more commitments than they can handle.

Even if she has no children, is the daily task of the average woman filled with many things like her work, cooking, cleaning, laundry, remember birthdays, bills, settle disputes between family members, etc. And those four little words “I can help you” Give her the feeling that you understand her.

Remember that women are taught from childhood that helpfulness is a sign of caring and offering her help, you offer her emotional support.

5. Respect.
Romance is wonderful but in a stable relationship a woman wants your respect. She probably has a job, like you, you and lives in a world where they still, how smart she is, judged on the size of her waist and the shoes they wear.

Women careers for harmony in the relationship and, studies show that even most of the housework, even if they full time works.

And yet they met almost daily at least one man who belittles her mindless with comments like: “You look much prettier when you smile” or her “sweetie” or call her if it has no brain in her head.

Women want respect for the enormous amount of work they do and the amount of emotional support they give to the people around them…. If you women in your life really is and love her, it is difficult not to respect her. Treat her as special, unique and beautiful person you know who she is, and your relationship will flourish.

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